Trying to Spice Things Up!

I think it's about time to introduce myself. My name is Teela and I'm a SAHM to twin sons (Jackson and Aiden) who will be 2 in June. My husband, Jason, and I went through 2 long years of infertility before we got pregnant with our twins and we are currently trying to add to our family.

This time around, we've been ttc (trying to conceive) for just over a year and honestly I can say that this time around it's a bit easier because this time around I have kids. I have two very loving and adorable sons to keep my mind off all the negative. I'm grateful for that.

I'll share with you a lesson I learned the other day.

We live a couple small towns away from where my husband works and he's lucky enough to have a few other co workers who also live out where we do and he has joined their car pool. They meet up at the Lowes in San Marcos and then they drive in one person's car to work.

One day after the kids and I had done some shopping, I decided on a whim to stop and leave a "naughty" love note for Jason in his car that he would find when he got off work. He was just telling me that he never really got love letters in High School and come on, you've got to spice things up when you're going at it each month like clockwork in hopes of getting pregnant, right? The note said something like, "I LOVE YOU! Guess what? It's getting close to ovulation. You know what that means.... xoxo, Me." Simple and to the point. His window was partially rolled down so I stuck the note to his steering wheel.

A few hours later he gets home and comes upstairs with a HUGE grin on his face and I'm thinking, "AH-HA! It worked!! He got the note!" and he says, "Matt," his coworker, "really liked your note." and I about DIED of embarrassment.

Moral of the Story: Must leave explicit instructions for husband to not share naughty love notes with co-workers.